​In my book, there's no "right" way to be gay. Come as you are. ​I welcome anyone—gay, lesbian, bi, transgender, queer, poly, questioning, straight—who resonates with the path I describe. 


​Not sure? I'd be happy to explore that with you further. Contact me for a confidential discussion.


"I find working with Chris to be a delight. Both the warmth and deep thinking that he brings to a session really help me feel not only held and seen, but also liberated from my destructive, fear-based thoughts. I trust Chris immensely to hold my hand through the scary parts, and jump for joy on the sunny side."


​—A.L., California

​​Many gay and questioning men and women live with sadness, fear, and shame, fed by messages that they are somehow "disordered" or damaged because they are (or might be) gay. It's not okay just to be themselves.


I understand this journey, because it has been mine, too. It may well be the path for your hero's journey to wholeness.


Whether you're still in the closet, or have been out for years and are still dealing with the lingering effects, I can help you to create more comfort and alignment between your inner and outer worlds. ​

Coaching, Healing, & Direction for Your Life 

Christopher M. Kisling 

Let go of the self-judgment and self-doubt. Come home to yourself.

[Hint: That's ok, too.]

GAY & QUESTIONING